What’s Hair Got To Do With It
Convincing your wife or girlfriend to stop shaving can be difficult, but it can be done. Most women have been shaving religiously since that first pubic hair appeared as a teenager. My wife was certainly no exception. This story might help some of you to gently and successfully realize your dream without ending a loving relationship. Or, it might not work at all and you will just have to be content to accept your lover as the person she wants to be.
My thoughts were always on the natural look of women. I really didn’t know why and I tried to ignore my desire for a hirsute lover. I will never forget the day when I forced my 15 year old girlfriends pants down just enough to see her blond bush. She resisted furiously, but what I saw made my heart skip a beat. She had just a hint of a treasure trail starting to grow. That little run of hair was unusual. I had never seen that before. In those days my fathers Playboy magazines were easily accessible. But those girls were always the Barbie Doll types and it seemed as though something was missing.
I tried little hints about not having to shave for me, but my girlfriend never took me seriously. The point here is that for all those years we were dating I could not bring myself to say exactly what I wanted. This desire to have her stop shaving continued right on into our marriage. As the years went by she became even more hirsute. That wisp of little blond peach fuzz became thick black whiskers running up to and all around her navel. Even the area around her nipples had some serious potential. But she still wanted to be clean shaved.
Well guys, and girls, that’s enough of the heartbreak. Yes my dream did come true and this lady is my dream girl. Now you are asking yourselves how did he do it? And, how did she finally come to accept that her man was more important than shaving?
Don’t get your hopes up too quickly. There is no magic combination of words that instantly changes a woman into hirsute. There might be a lot of personal and social reasons for a woman to desire clean shaven legs and pits. Please consider all of the following very carefully and all of you men out there have to realize how your lady feels FIRST!
Step #1 is to be open and honest right from the beginning. Even that may not be enough, but if you hide your true feelings you will be unhappy and your lover may never know why.
Step #2 is to be willing to compromise. Meeting her half way is better than getting nothing and once she realizes how much you enjoy it…
Step #3 is to be willing to make some changes about your self! If you are open and honest with your lady she will most likely tell you a few things you might not have expected.
Step #4 is to be thankful and show your appreciation. That special lady has been giving you little hints about dinner, a new car or whatever she wants. Whether it’s a small item or a big one, or maybe just more time to cuddle. Make her feel good!
In my own situation I was able to enjoy seasonal and localized year round hirsute-ness. We came to agreement early on that no one but me ever saw my wife topless. She always wore shorts, pants or skirts that covered her belly button. And most often her clothes covered at least down to mid-thigh. MY FIRST SUCCESS! Year round enjoyment of a luscious treasure trail, hairy areolas, and buussshhh half way to the knees.
Now here is an item that took several years to conquer. The elusive ‘pit beard’. The misconception on hairy pits is that the pit hair causes body odor. Sorry girls that is not true and all of us guys know it. I can understand the association that women have with body odor and pit hair. Picture this… It has been three days since your ladies last shower. She looks at her pits and sees stubble. The odor is obvious, especially after three days! She gets in the shower and shaves. After her glorious shower she smells better and is clean shaved. Therefore it was the hair that smelled, right? WRONG. The key to body odor was taking a bath. So guys and girls the key to this issue is to take a bath and stay clean.
Now for you ladies to know what your reward can be… My wife found out that she could now control when my orgasm will occur. When she is ready and wants me to cum with her all she has to do is raise her arms. Mr. Peabody swells to twice his normal fully erect size and explosions occur immediately. And, you ladies all know that simultaneous orgasms are always the best. Also another little hint. If you know your man likes or might want to lick that luscious pit beard of yours, don’t use antiperspirant. Antiperspirant tastes terrible. Sure you can use it after, or early in the morning before work, but make sure it is all cleaned off before spotting your man his fuzzy treat. If you insist on using these chemicals warn your man first. Or at least have a camera ready cause the look on his face after a taste of antiperspirant is one of utter disgust.
Social issues are for the women very hard to over come. Picture three dozen girls in the junior high school locker room. It’s the first week of school and Pam is headed for the shower. Pam is our hero you know. Pam has never shaved but up until today no one ever knew. Picture now the ten cruelest sluts in the locker room making the worst of an embarrassing situation. Now you have to realize that your special lady does not wish to be treated like Pam was treated. Her solution is to shave everything whether you like it or not.
I am not going to even attempt to tell you how to over come this type of fear.
Leg hair is probably the one item that most of you will have to consider a seasonal pleasure.
Pit hair can be hidden by the proper choice of blouses. But when the weather gets hot the shorts come out and unless you have a really brave woman the hair comes off!
I hope that the viewpoint of society will relax on the issue of hirsute women. I am confident that there are more men that like hirsute women than there are men who don’t. I can attest to this fact. My wife and I will go swimming at public pools in the summer. When she is wearing her bikini her thick treasure trail is visible from hundreds of feet away. Her curly bush extends at least eight inches down her thighs. I have seen men, (trying to be discreet) come as close as they can while we are in the pool just to get a glimpse of her dark blond curls. The look on their faces tells the story. Their eyes glaze over, they obviously stop breathing and their child ends up being dropped, accidentally, in water over their heads. I don’t mind a bit. Just knowing that other men also find her attractive makes me feel good.
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